Original Post: 2019.12.09 00:00

Translation: 2019.12.09 21:32

Lately I have been feeling doubtful.

I have a friend since high school whom I consider my best friend. She has never initiated contact except once (That time she wished me all the best for exam… so I thought this friend has always been of this personality.

Now that we are in our mid 20’s, I always thought until now if that it is not important who contacts first, so I continued to contact my friend.

But now, I feel suspicious. If I do not contact first, will she not contact me until the day of death, what kind of friend is this.. I keep feeling this way.

I have been thinking whether to contact or not all the time, that I have stopped contacting her.

Just thinking about how much do we have to put up in the matter of human relationships..

I am a little bitter.

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[+90, -40] Euk… it is like my story so it is a little spine-chilling ㅋㅋ I am the type who does not contact first, and it is not that I am complicated, I just do not do it;; This involves not friends, but also all of my personal connections. It is not like I do not like to do it, it seems like it is just that I am busy from day to day that I do not have a clear mind.

[+58, -2] Yes, do not do it. It is better for your peace of mind to just cut contact now.

[+54, 0] Please do not get stressed from human relationships. The relationship that one wants will come eventually.

[+14, -11] Sigh, you are in you mid 20’s stop playing bestfriend games, please just live your life.